To understand the logic and reason to not hate anybody, you need to understand four things.
- Why we hate?
- When we hate?
- The process of hating.
- And the consequence of hating.
Why Do You Hate Someone?
Offcourse, for some reason.
When Do You Hate Someone?
You hate someone when you don’t like what they said or did to you.
The Process of Hating
You hate somebody, if they did or said something which you did not like.
If you hold onto such things, you remember them endlessly, day and night till eternity.
If you remember, you give them too much importance.
If you give them unnecessary importance, you give them precious space in your tiny little brain.
There are more important things to keep in brain than such people.
The Consequence of Hating
You spend precious time in holding nonsense, become negative, live in past, lose peace of mind, and make your head and heart heavy.
Also to not start another negative cycle of karma.
Would you like to do that? Is that your goal in life?
If Not Hating then What Should You Do?
If you don’t like what someone did or said to you, just dislike them.
This is a simple, sweet, quick and time saving solution.
Its a smart decision, as well as a Good Karma.
This is also a positive, productive and constructive way to deal with such people.
Next time onwards make a choice, whether to hate someone or just dislike.
I don’t hate you, I am just not necessarily excited by your existence.
I don’t hate you. I just don’t want to give you an opportunity to hurt me again.
I don’t hate you, but I am done investing my time in you.
Martin Luther King
I decided to stick to love…Hate is too great a burden to bear.
Moral of the Story
Dislike, instead of hating.